Here’s what I shared in my TedX Talk…
This past weekend, I gave a TedX talk on how to ensure you live a happy and successful life on your own terms (video of the talk coming soon).
In it, I shared the power of negativity bias and how we have the ability to train our minds to create different results in our reality through taming this bias.
You see, our minds naturally gravitate toward thinking about what is going wrong, or what could go wrong.
Negativity bias shows up in dating + relationships as…
Comparing yourself to everyone else around you, instead of trusting the timeline you are on.
Assuming the worst with anyone you go on a date with, instead of looking for what you do connect on or what you can appreciate.
Judging people for the small things, instead of focusing on their core values and how they approach life.
Being on hard on yourself because you’re not further along in your relationship life, instead of knowing that you only need one person to change everything.
If you’ve been struggling to see the opportunity and the good in your dating experience, I want you to know that it’s not you…
It’s your negativity bias going to work.
And until it starts to be trained, you’re going to experience the same thing over and over again.
In the same way that the more consistently you go to the gym and exercise, the better you feel, the stronger you get, and the more energy you have…
Your mind has the exact same capability.
You’re able to quite literally train your mind to a high caliber level to see the opportunity, release judgment, build confidence and so much more.
This is what I help my private clients do through our work together, so they’re able to shift their mindsets, confidence, and practical actions in order to attract in better people with more joy and more ease.
If you’d like to shift your dating life for the better, I want to invite you to book a call with me to explore working together in a high caliber experience that will transform your dating experience and your life overall.