How to Date More Intentionally in Boston
This past week I’ve had a bunch of calls with both men and women who are focused on finding their partner this summer.
The theme across these calls has been that they all are open to meeting people in person.
Hallelujah.
It’s no longer solely a dating app world out there, and there is so much potential when you create opportunity to meet people in person.
Not only are you tapping into the potential to have a great STORY of how you met —
(…don’t we all want a great story of how we met our person?! )
But when you meet someone in real life, you’re dating more efficiently than through an app.
Why??
1. You’re picking up on their energy and vibe right away. Did you know that 93% of how well a first interaction goes depends on non-verbal cues + energy??! It’s much less about the words you’re saying, and more about the energy you’re saying them with.
This is why someone can be ‘great on paper’ but a dud in real life (…).
It’s also why someone we wouldn’t expect turns out to be a perfect fit ().
We’re always picking up on things subconsciously below the surface in person, things which are simply impossible to pick up through a screen. A human being is infinitely more than simply the bio or photos they choose for their profile.
2. Attraction is felt a hell of a lot more in person than through a screen. Mmmm yes. I don’t know about you, but I definitely want to have chemistry with my partner. You get to FEEL this a lot more in person than is possible through an app.
3. You know their intention + answer a lot quicker, so you’re saving time and emotional bandwidth. No more wasting days or weeks texting back and forth on the app, only to find out they’re not interested in going on a date or end up ghosting you. Yes, rejection is a possibility — but when you learn how to move through it, release the fear, and instead see it as re-direction - it saves a lot of time and emotional energy.
Now of course —
Once you’ve decided you’re open to meeting people in person, the top two questions I hear are:
“Where do I meet these great people?”
AND once you’ve decided where to go, the follow up question of…
“How the hell do I actually strike up a conversation, gauge their interest in me, and transition to a first date?!”
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