How to Find Value In Anything
There are some people who will never value what you’re offering to the world.
This shows up in dating as the person who says you’re amazing but doesn’t put in the effort or commit to plans.
This shows up at work as the manager who repeatedly talks to you in a condescending way, and then is surprised when you say you’re leaving the company.
This shows up in business as the person who says they want to work with you, but then ghosts you or says your offer is ‘too expensive’.
They don’t value what you’re offering enough at this moment in time.
The reason why they don’t value it doesn’t really have anything to do with you.
But it can be so easy to get caught up and over focused on the people that don’t value what you’re offering — right?
I know I’ve done this plenty of times in dating. in relationships. in work.
But the great thing is — plenty of people WILL absolutely value what you’re offering.
My question to you is — what are you focusing on??
There is a bit of VISION that’s required to see the value in what you’re investing in.
Whether it be investing in a person, a job, an opportunity, your dating life, your health, your confidence, and/or your mindset.
—> You have to see not just how it will affect you today – but also how your life will forever change down the line.
In fact, most of the time the vision is the most exciting part
One of my clients, Natalie, was nervous to invest in herself, but she was able to move through that feeling and see the VISION.
Little did she know that after our first call together, she would go on to:
Completely shift her mindset around dating and as a result feel the best she’s ever felt about dating
Meet her boyfriend and move in with him
Get promoted at her company
Set boundaries with family members that were judgmental and draining
Tune into her truest desires for her life and step into them day-by-day
Pretty amazing, right?
She chose to see the value of shifting her mindset, confidence, and practical approach and to see the vision of what’s possible.
I know that if I choose to find the value, I will get value out of whatever I invest in.
Whoever I speak to.
Whatever experience I have.
Because I decide to find the value.
Don’t waste your time on people that don’t choose to see your value.
Move onto the thousands of people that will.
Of course, it’s our responsibility is to let people know all the amazingness we offer, so here’s what you can do:
Communicate clearly who you are and what you bring to life, show up in your truest expression
Relate to the other person on a human level and emotionally connect
Actually show up and take action in your life
Embody the energy, mindset, approach to life, and confidence you want to attract in return
Release the people who aren’t ready for you or don’t see your value at this moment
Don’t take it personally
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