Making New Friends as an Adult
At the start of this year, I felt super lonely.
Yes, I had a great romantic relationship.
But felt like my friendships were lacking
At the time, I had friends that had moved away. Or were at a different stage in life with different priorities.
Or simply were negative and wanted to complain more than actually make any change. Or didn’t really reciprocate when I would reach out and try to make plans.
I really wanted some new friends in my area that were supportive, fun, energizing, and going after what they wanted in their life.
But I had some major mindset shifts I had to make in order to create this reality for myself.
In February of this year, I thought it would take a long time to meet new people.
I thought it would be hard to do.
I thought the type of friends who I could feel deeply connected to were rare in my area.
I didn’t know where to go to meet these types of people either.
…you can see how my beliefs, thoughts, and mindset affected my reality.
It felt daunting to start shifting this area of my life, because I didn’t really believe it was possible in an easy or fun way.
I felt it would be hard and tiring. I wasn’t sure if it was possible at this stage in my life.
(Can you also see how your thoughts, mindset, and beliefs 100% affect ANY area of your life — dating, wellness, friendships, career, inner peace, etc??!)
My intention I set in February was to create 2 aligned, supportive, and energizing friendships by the end of 2023.
And instead, I have created six new friendships in just these past 7 months since setting that intention.
Even better, most of them live within a 3 mile radius of my home.
These people were always THERE — they just hadn’t come into my reality yet.
…and it was a LOT easier, more fun, and happened more quickly than I initially thought it could.
So, how did I do it?
Today on the podcast, I’m sharing my 5 step process that I used in order to create this reality (you can listen at the links below).
You’re going to see me continue to branch out beyond dating this fall because…
Time and time again I’ve seen my clients up level not just their dating life + romantic relationships— but also:
-How they feel about themselves
-How they approach life with more trust and confidence
-The fulfillment they feel in their business and/or careers
-Their wellness intentions and goals
-The boundaries they have
-Their mindset and beliefs about what’s possible
-Their friendships and relationship with their family
-Their self love and tuning into their truest desires for their life
I’ve discovered over the past few years working with all these amazing men and women that it’s not just about dating.
It’s about Creating The Reality You Want.
No area is off limits.
It’s all possible. It’s all connected.
And it’s time to start talking about it.
Today’s podcast episode is on how to make more aligned friendships as an adult. If you’ve been feeling like you want to expand this area of your life, this one is for you!