“So…are we in a relationship?” How to Define the Relationship and Navigate Vulnerable Conversations in Dating
There comes a time when you’re dating when that big question comes up…
“What are we??”
It can be a vulnerable conversation to have and if it makes you nervous to bring up — you are definitely not alone.
For me, the UNKNOWN of that conversation is really what causes the most anxiety or anticipation.
…what if they’re not on the same page?
…what if they don’t respond in the way I want them to?
…but what if they DO??!!
The more we can prepare our own minds in these more vulnerable conversations, the better.
We can’t control how the other person feels, what they say, or what they respond with…
But you can control and prepare yourself mentally on what your response will be when you receive the clarity you need.
In today’s podcast episode, I’m sharing my 4 step process to prepare yourself for the more vulnerable/relationship moving forward conversations like:
“What are we?”
“Do you want kids?”
“Do you see yourself getting married?”
…and any other big questions that involve being on the same page as the person you’re dating or in a relationship with.
You can use this process in the early stages of dating, and also when you’ve been with someone a while in a relationship and want to bring up a more vulnerable topic/issue.
Click below to listen and learn the 4 steps!